Pregnant? Congratulations! I know firsthand how rough the first trimester can be, what with the fatigue, morning sickness, nausea symptoms and general overwhelm. Fear not! This First Trimester Pregnancy Survival Guide will provide you with tips, tricks and product recommendations (from books and prenatal vitamins to diet and self-care advice) to help you get through this exciting, and difficult, time. The perfect checklists for natural mamas-to-be!
SURPRISE!! I am so beyond thrilled to announce that Matt and I are expecting a baby boy in September.
It has been damn near impossible to keep this from you guys–there have been so many things I wanted to share, so many questions I wanted to ask my fellow mamas, so many times that I almost let it slip by accident.
But we wanted to wait until our 20-week anatomy ultrasound to ensure that everything was A-OK with our little guy and I'm so happy and fortunate to say that he's healthy and growing and as cute as a little alien-like ultrasound image can possibly be.
So, with all that being said, I thought it would be helpful to some of my other natural mamas and mamas-to-be out there to share what got me through the first trimester, because let me tell you, it was no cake walk.
But before we get into that, I want to give y'all this disclaimer. Yes, I'm pregnant. Yes, I will be having a baby. No, this blog will not become a mommy blog that talks about nothing but babies and parenting and diapers.
But yes, I do plan to share some prenatal/pregnancy/maternity/baby tips, tricks, advice and product recommendations moving forward. There will still be plenty of real food recipes, green beauty advice, holistic health tips and all the content you've come to know and (hopefully!) love on Root + Revel, but there will be some baby stuff thrown in, too.
First Trimester Pregnancy Symptoms
Oh. My. God. The first trimester is hard. Personally, I had horrible vertigo and it felt like I was always wearing somebody else's glasses…the dizziness was rough.
I was also beyond tired. In fact, I really couldn't believe how drained, fatigued, and just spent I was all the time, no matter how much I slept, for nearly 12 straight weeks. Growing a human is HARD WORK.
So the first, and easily most important, thing that got me through the first trimester was rest, rest and more rest. The debilitating exhaustion is no joke and I took many a mid-afternoon nap and/or 8 p.m. bedtime during those three months.
I salute pregnant women everywhere just for getting through this time and accomplishing anything during the first trimester, as just putting on pants was a major feat for me. Thank God I worked from home 😉
In addition to fatigue and vertigo, I was also pretty nauseous. But it was weird–I never got physically sick (thankfully), but instead, I had a really hard time eating because everything (including my favorite foods) sounded absolutely disgusting. And don't even get me started on smells.
The blander the better–there were a lot of bagels and cream cheese in my life this winter–and anything hot was off limits (coffee, soup, cooked vegetables, even meat). All I wanted was ice cold, crisp, sour and refreshing foods like citrus, pickles, ice cream and cold cereal.
The rumors are true!
Give me carbs or give me death. Pregnancy cravings and aversions are real!
Keeping that in mind, and knowing that in my normal life I am extremely health-conscious and eat a very nutrient-dense, low-carb, low-sugar diet, this pregnancy has been tough on me. And after talking with my friends, family and doctors, I know I'm not alone in this struggle.
So here are the things that got me through this time, My First Trimester Survival Guide, if you will.
Note: not all of these things are healthy and pure, but at a certain point you've got to do whatchyou've got to do.
My First Trimester Pregnancy Survival Guide
Pregnancy Books: I know there are some classics like What to Expect, but after paging through that monstrosity, I realized that this book (and most other pregnancy books on the market) was not for me.
I am not interested in fear-based recommendations. I'm looking for evidence-based facts and science.
I am not interested in one-size-fits-all, population-based pregnancy advice. I'm interested in resources that empower me to make my own right choices, that call on my own intuition, and that explain the reasons why you should/should not do something based on data, not panic.
I am not interested in a giant rulebook of things I can't do during these 9 months. I want to know the issues that really matter (hint: it's not turkey sandwiches or coffee). I want a reassuring tour of pregnancy and childbirth that makes me believe I can actually do this.
Because, as one astute reviewer said, the only antidote to pregnancy anxiety is facts. So here are the books that armed me with evidence, that explained things to be like I wasn't a baby myself (or worse, a total invalid), that questioned conventional pregnancy rules, and ultimately gave me the information, confidence and guidance I so desperately needed during the first trimester:
- Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom Is Wrong–and What You Really Need to Know
- The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth
- Nurture: A Modern Guide to Pregnancy, Birth, Early Motherhood – and Trusting Yourself and Your Body
First Trimester Pregnancy Diet: I'll be honest, my normal anti-inflammatory, nutrient-dense way of eating didn't exist much in the first trimester. And my naturopath is actually the one who helped me be okay with that–she explained to me that listening to my body was most important (it, and my baby, would tell me what I really needed), that there were scientific reasons for my cravings, and that I just needed to do the best I could and accept that there is no such thing as perfect.
So, rather than striving for perfection, I tried to make healthIER choices. Here's what got my through all those horrible pregnancy aversions and cravings:
- Ginger Ale: Everyone knows that ginger settles an upset tummy, but when I read the ingredients and amount of sugar of most conventional ginger ales I wanted to run away screaming. So I set out to find a sugar-free, non-processed ginger ale and came across my new favorite brand: Brooklyn Crafted Extra Spicy Sugar Free Ginger Beer. Don't be fooled, this ginger beer is non-alcoholic and made with pure, real food ingredients like Carbonated Water, 100% Fresh Ginger, Organic Ginger Extract, Citric Acid and Organic Stevia Leaf Extract. With only 10 calories per bottle, this was one nausea-reducing drink I could actually feel good about drinking. You can buy it at Sprouts, Fresh Market or online. I bought mine from TalDepot.
- Sparkling Water: When I wasn't drinking ginger ale or guzzling filtered water (who else was beyond thirsty during their first trimester?), I was sipping refreshingLemon La Croix. At first, this craving for tangy bubbles looked like Sprite. But when I saw the #1 ingredient was high-fructose corn syrup, I knew that wouldn't do. Lemon La Croix tastes surprisingly similar, but without all those nasty additives and artificial sweeteners.
- Boxed Mac & Cheese: Like I said, not everything on this list is healthy, per say. But when the last thing you feel like doing is cooking, and you're craving carbs, boxed mac & cheese is where it's at. I tried half a dozen different varieties and found that I didn't like the powdered cheese as much as I liked the squeeze packet cheese. Horizon Organic Cheddar Cheesy Deluxe Mac & Cheese was my favorite, and Earth Fare also has a store brand organic mac & cheese that was delicious! I tried to keep the ingredient list short, organic and made with grass-fed real cheese and milk. Now keep in mind, I'm not trying to pretend this was the healthiest choice. This is a processed food and as such, certain additives like Canola Oil, Sodium Phosphate, Natural Flavor and Organic Guar Gum are included in here. To up the nutrition ante, I always mixed in organic peas, spinach and even carrot or butternut squash puree, so I was at least getting some veggies.
- Fruit: Cold, sweet and sour. That's what I wanted during the first trimester, and so I ate tons of apples, bananas, and all the citrus. I went through A LOT of clementines and oranges during the first trimester, so at least I can feel good about that balancing out all the cheesy pasta I also ate.
- Cereal: Oh man, I haven't had cereal since I was in high school. But around week 8, I got a mad craving for carbs covered in ice cold milk. Of course, conventional cereal is loaded with sugar, artificial colors and flavors, and other nasty additives. So I tried to find healthier versions. My favorites: Envirokidz Organic Gluten-Free Peanut Butter & Chocolate Leapin' Lemurs, Cascadian Farms Organic Graham Crunch and their Cinnamon Crunch cereal. Always with Organic Valley Grassmilk, Whole.
- Ice Cream: It's true what they say–pregnant women love their ice cream. My addiction during the first trimester: Häagen-Dazs Trio Coffee Vanilla Chocolate Ice Cream. I know, it's not organic, it's not dairy-free and it contains real sugar. But what I loved about this ice cream (other than the obvious deliciousness!) was that the ingredient list was short: cream, skim milk, cane sugar, egg yolks, vanilla extract, coffee, coconut oil, whole milk powder, belgian unsweetened chocolate, cocoa butter, soy lecithin, vanilla extract. At least I know what all of those ingredients are. Nadamoo and Revolution Gelato are great dairy-free options, too.
- Food Delivery: Did I mention that I had ZERO desire to cook during the first trimester? I think I single-handedly kept UberEats in business during those 12 weeks. For everything else, I relied on Instacart + Thrive Market to deliver my groceries to my doorstep. Easy peasy!
- Stainless Water Bottle with Staw: Hydration is SO important when you're pregnant, and my naturopath encouraged me to drink from a straw, as studies have shown people drink more water out of a straw than a bottle. So I bought SimpleHH Stainless Steel Tumbler with Lid and Straw and kept it filled constantly, striving to drink at least four per day. Worked like a charm!
First Trimester Pregnancy Care Checklist:
Taking good care of yourself has never been more important than when you're growing a tiny human. Here are the products that helped me treat myself well during the first trimester of pregnancy:
- Organic, Real Food Prenatal Vitamins: Don't listen to what anyone else tells you: not all prenatal vitamins are created equal. Not only are some made from synthetic sources instead of real food sources, but the dosages of vitamins and minerals can vary widely, low-quality vitamins are made with tons of additives that can actually harm your baby, price is obviously a huge factor and methylation is also something worth considering. I'll get more into this in another detailed prenatal vitamins post, but for now I'll say that the best prenatal vitamins I've found are Nutrigold Prenatal Vitamins. I originally started with Garden of Life Organic Prenatal Multivitamin, which are also good, but found the pills to be huge and difficult to swallow. Nutrigold checks all the boxes! (Use the coupon code ROOT for an extra 10% off NutriGold's everyday sale price of 20% off… that's up to 30% off your entire order!)
- Supplements: In addition to taking my prenatal vitamins, I also took Pure Encapsulations Probiotic 50B and Green Pastures Fermented Cod Liver Oil to help keep me and my baby healthy.
- Maternity Bras: If you're like me, your breasts will likely change quite a bit during this time. Don't wait to invest in a maternity bra until you're nursing–having a bra that fits your new size and is comfortable about your expanding rib cage is key. I'm obsessed with the Motherhood Full Coverage Back Smoothing Nursing Bra, which has an extra wide, seamless band to banish back fat!
- Organic Belly Balm: As your belly and breasts grow, stretch and itch (yes, really!), it's so important to use a moisturizing belly balm to prevent stretch marks, soothe irritated skin and generally keep ya moisturized. My favorite: Midwife and Mum Tummy Butter.
- Prenatal Bath Bombs: Hot tubs may be out during pregnancy, but warm baths are incredibly beneficial during this time. To up the ante, I loved using Glow Organics Bath Bombs, which are made with Baking Soda, Citric Acid, Organic Cocoa Butter, Organic Sweet Almond Oil and Organic essential oils. I also loved their Foot and Hand Scrub
- Gentle Skincare: With all the extra hormones, it's only natural for your skin to take a hit. So if you missed the pregnancy glow and went straight to teenage boy acne (like me!), this one's for you. Instead of drying out your skin with harsh topicals that have been proven to cause birth defects, check out True Botanicals Pregnancy Line (get 15% off with the code Root15) and Acure Organics Sensitive Skin Cleanser.
- Maternity Jeans: So, most women don't really start showing until the second trimester. But I started showing around 10 weeks. And before that I just felt fat, bloated, puffy and like I ate too many tacos (which I probably did!). Don't wait to make the switch to maternity clothes. I went to Target in my first trimester, and after slipping into a pair of their comfy and affordable maternity jeans, immediately got a huge self-confidence boost. I went from feeling like I was busting out of my clothes to feeling like the adorable pregnant mama I was. I also loved the super soft and chic maternity tops at Motherhood Maternity, which has so many great sales!
- Gentle Exercise: Workout while pregnant? Ha, that's hilarious. I barely had the energy to put on pants, let alone go to the gym. So instead I did some light yoga and stretching at home, and took my puppy for leisurely walks around the neighborhood. It wasn't always easy to get myself moving, but I always felt better after I did.
Are you pregnant? What go you through the first trimester? PLEASE share in the comments below so we can all help each other during this exciting, exhausting, overwhelming, joyful and difficult time!
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